So, there's this girl who I been friends with since 6th grade. We became really good friends, and it was great. Until 8th grade we kind of became distant. I found out she was talking about me behind me back, but I never confronted her. We hung out a lot and gave each other Christmas presents, and she wanted me to help plan her birthday party.
Well, 8th grade ended and it was summer and we messaged sometimes on Facebook, but I never really started the conversation. So I remember I was on vacation at Myrtle beach, and I see a message from her. She's just asking about how my summer was and I replied, and it's been a month and she didn't reply. SO I decided to reply again and ask her if I made her mad, and she never replied. My other friends told me she didn't want to be friends with me and she was done with me.... Our friendship was gone.
School started, and I saw her at orientation. I just ignored her and it's been like that for a while. We're in high school now, and we haven't spoken since becoming freshman. I see her around a lot, but we don't say hi. I was upset for loosing my best friend, but I got over it. I made new friends.
Well now, it's been years, and she messaged me on Facebook. I deleted her as a friend, but decided I would be a drama queen if I blocked her. So she sent this long message saying she was sorry she was dramatic and hope we can have our friendship back. She said some other stuff too, and I forgave her. I guess being on my own changed me as a person with this how self improvement plan, and one part to become a better person is to forgive and forget. I didn't hate her, and I respect her for wanting to connect again after all these years. So I said I forgave her and other things. I guess I learned something. I'm not one to hold grudges, and if someone makes an effort to talk to me, I will do the same.
Basically, we should all learn to forgive the ones in our lives who were their for us. Even if we did nothing wrong, we should be the better person. So today I gained a new fried. I didn't gain my best friend back, but I got someone who once was so important in my life back. It's not going to be the same, because we both changed, but I am willing to talk to her and help her out, she seems like she needs a friend.
Well, 8th grade ended and it was summer and we messaged sometimes on Facebook, but I never really started the conversation. So I remember I was on vacation at Myrtle beach, and I see a message from her. She's just asking about how my summer was and I replied, and it's been a month and she didn't reply. SO I decided to reply again and ask her if I made her mad, and she never replied. My other friends told me she didn't want to be friends with me and she was done with me.... Our friendship was gone.
School started, and I saw her at orientation. I just ignored her and it's been like that for a while. We're in high school now, and we haven't spoken since becoming freshman. I see her around a lot, but we don't say hi. I was upset for loosing my best friend, but I got over it. I made new friends.
Well now, it's been years, and she messaged me on Facebook. I deleted her as a friend, but decided I would be a drama queen if I blocked her. So she sent this long message saying she was sorry she was dramatic and hope we can have our friendship back. She said some other stuff too, and I forgave her. I guess being on my own changed me as a person with this how self improvement plan, and one part to become a better person is to forgive and forget. I didn't hate her, and I respect her for wanting to connect again after all these years. So I said I forgave her and other things. I guess I learned something. I'm not one to hold grudges, and if someone makes an effort to talk to me, I will do the same.
Basically, we should all learn to forgive the ones in our lives who were their for us. Even if we did nothing wrong, we should be the better person. So today I gained a new fried. I didn't gain my best friend back, but I got someone who once was so important in my life back. It's not going to be the same, because we both changed, but I am willing to talk to her and help her out, she seems like she needs a friend.